10 Mistakes Educating Children

HOW TO EDUCATE CHILDREN | TIPS FOR PARENTS TO EDUCATE CHILDREN


 
         When you think whether you are an exemplary parent? So your answer, of course I am the role model for my child. We will not find "The tiger eats his own son", or perhaps it's impossible for us to harm our own children. Parents are always trying to provide the best for their child. In fact many parents make mistakes in educating their child.
Here are some mistakes that you may not realize happen in educating your child:
1. Less Oversight
          According to Professor Robert Billingham, Human Development and Family Studies - Indiana University, "Children hanging out with too much artificial environment outside the family, and it is a tragedy that should be considered by parents". Well now you know, how to work around this, for example when your child is in day care or school, try to visit him regularly and unplanned. If your control is reduced, the solution look for another daycare. Do not let your child roam alone. Your child needs attention.
2. Failed Listening
         According to psychologist Charles Fay, Ph.D. "Many parents are too tired to pay attention - tend to ignore what their children expressed", ie Aisha came home with an inert eye, generally the elderly and then directly respond to it in excess, to guess the child hit the ball, or fighting with his friend. In fact, parents do not know what happened to the children themselves who tell it.
3. Home Seldom Meet
         According to Billingham, parents should let children make mistakes, let the child learn from mistakes so as not to repeat the same mistakes. Help your child to solve their own problems, but do not take advantage for your benefit.
4. Too Excessive
         According to Judy Haire, "many parents spend 100 miles per hour drying my hair, than to spend an hour with their children". Children need time alone to feel the boredom, because it would spur creativity bring up the child grows.
5. Arguing In front of Children
        According to psychiatrist Sarah B. Miller, Ph.D., of the most influential destructive behavior is the "fight" in front of children. When parents fight in front of their children, especially boys, then the result is a candidate who is not sensitive man who can not relate in a healthy woman. Parents should warm the discussions between them, without the children around them. Naturally, the parents try a different opinion but without anger. Do not create feelings of insecurity and fear in children.
6. Not Consistent
        Children need to feel that their parents have a role. Do not let them beg and whine to be a powerful weapon to get what they want. Parents should be firm and authoritative in front of children.
7. Ignoring Heart Voice
       According to Lisa Balch, mother of two children, "just do it according to your heart and let it flow without also ignoring the voices around him that weakens. I learned a lot that parents should have a keen sense of something ".
8. Watch TV Too Much
        According to Neilsen Media Research, American children aged 2-11 years watch three hours and 22 minutes broadcast TV a day. Watching television will make children lazy learning. Parents tend to allow children to linger in front of the TV rather than interfere with parents. Parents are very unlikely be able to filter the entry of negative advertising that does not educate.
9. Everything Measured By Material
         According to Louis Hodgson, mother of 4 kids and grandmother of 6 grandchildren, "children now have many objects to be collected". It is not wrong spoil the child with toys and a luxury holiday. But that should realize is that your child requires quality time with their parents. They tend to want to be heard than be given something and silent.
10. Be Next Heavy
        Some parents sometimes more supportive of children and child biased while vilifying her partner in front of children. Their perception will disappear and tend to be biased. Spend time with children at least 10 minutes interrupted your busy life. And make sure your child knows the time with parents is time that can not be interrupted.

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